Have you ever started the new year with a ton of motivation, and a feeling of a fresh start. That feeling that almost anything is possible. Starting at the gym, budgeting, eating well and finally spending time on you! The hope, the enjoyment and the excitement...
All to have it fall apart by February. Ending up back in the same old patterns as before, lacking motivation to continue on with your goals, and having these years resolutions fall by the wayside.
Well enough is enough! Time to make and sustain that change.
These next few blogs are going to highlight different things to think about and different changes to make to help you change the way you look at your resolutions, and stick with them this time around, because lets face it... you deserve it!
New Year, New Me? Let's make it happen!
Part 1: Resolutions
The fitness industry is a funny place. Many fitness instructors and leaders are dead set in a black and white mentality of this is right, and this is wrong. Unfortunately, that can lead to highly biased opinions and mislead consumers, cause lets face it... we wouldn’t buy a program that MIGHT work for us, versus a program advertised that WILL work for us.
One example of a term that’s been getting beaten up over the past several years is the term “Resolution” especially around New Years.
“Don’t make resolution’s... make goals!” is a common term you will hear from almost ANY fitness instructor come the new year, including yours truly. But why? Why is it that Resolutions are now the enemy?
The common thought process behind why resolutions aren’t great is that they are too generalized, they don’t add any structure, and that they don’t work long term. When we look at it that way, resolutions don’t sound like the best way to go when making a lifestyle change. Even in practice they seem to not work very well, think back to last new years and what resolutions we may have made. Did we follow through on them? Did they last more than a month? Most likely not. So that must mean that resolutions are crap, and you’re better off not making them at all right?
Wrong.
Resolutions are fantastic to make. When we look at the definition of a Resolution, they are a “firm decision to do or not to do something”. When we make that decision that we want to make a change, whether that’s adding something into your lifestyle (exercise, water, etc.) or taking something out (bad nutrition habits, smoking, etc.) that’s the starting point of the process. We don’t implement a plan; we don’t set goals and we don’t see progress without first making a resolution to see that change. It’s the way we approach resolutions that need to change, not simply stopping the process of making resolutions. Resolutions should be the base that we set our goals for the year. If our resolution is to get in better shape this new year, then we can start to make action plans on how to accomplish that. It really is a trickle-down affect from that ultimate vision of what you want to accomplish throughout the year, and then applying strategies to accomplishing it.
Long story short… Goals and Resolutions are ultimately the same thing. So next new years, make a resolution, make a goal, make action plans but most importantly take action towards those plans. We can have the best plan in place to see change but unless we put that into action, we’ll never see the changes we want.
Part 2: The Starting Point
Why is it that we always seem to start something on a Sunday? Or the First of the Month? Or the start of the New Year?
The fitness industry is keen on promoting the “don’t wait, start now” mentality, but why do so many of us wait to get started?
While I’ll never claim to be a psychologist and know for sure (this is all based off prior experience), there’s something to be said about having a clearly defined, set time frame to make a change, that just helps us get started. Mentally, this gives us a chance to prepare for change, and be ready to make that jump.
Let’s start with the example of starting to go to the gym. If we know exactly what day we are going to start (and commit to it!) then it gives us an opportunity to prepare, get some new shoes, new workout clothes, a water bottle, look up a workout plan, and visualize how that experience is going to go. It gives us time to ask around about the facility we’ve decided on, so we have a better idea of where things are or how things work. Mentally, we feel more prepared when we first step into the gym. Yes, there will still be nerves and a bit of anxiousness if we’ve never been there before, but once we get going that will dissipate very quickly.
Another benefit of being able to prepare is that we have one date that we know we need to get started with. We know exactly what time/day we need to be at the gym, so instead of saying “I’ll go tomorrow” time and time again, we are able to commit to the date selected.
There is no other prime example of this time specific starting date, then short term programs. They are by far the most popular programs, and one of the most successful in terms of the results we can see in a short time frame. One of the biggest reasons why people have so much success? “It had a specific start and end date”.
But this isn’t just for fitness, this is applied in a lot of ways through our lives. How many of us have started a budget at the beginning of the month? Who’s rent comes out at the same time every month? Do you do your grocery shopping on Sunday? Do you have a clear time you need to be at work? We do this because it helps us think ahead, it helps us track things better, or because we just need that structured accountability in our minds to get us there.
So whatever change you are looking to make, use this tool to help yourself. While its great to be an action taker and do things at the spur of the moment, that’s not how everyone works. Look at your calendar and pick a date you are getting started, then get started!
Part 3: Priorities
Every new year, gyms get flooded with new members looking to finally make that change this New Year and be a healthier version of themselves. But come the end of January, many of these individuals are no longer going to the gym. They’ve fallen off, lost motivation, or simply stopped going all together. But why does this happen? Why do people start with so many great intentions but don’t follow through?
Let’s take a step back and think about why we got started in the first place. Most of us start a physical activity routine because we know we should in order to lose weight, lose inches and be healthier. We want to look and feel better than we do now. So, if we want it, why don’t we stick with it?
It’s quite simple, but we have a hard time admitting it. The reason why we don’t stick with it? It’s not a priority to us, compared to other things in our life.
We need to prioritize the time we spend on ourselves to go to the gym. We need to prioritize getting that gym session in before or after work when all we want to do is hit the snooze button, or head home to chill out on the couch (and most of us aren’t getting up once we get there!). It means eating more fruits and veggies rather than chips and ice-cream. Drinking more water than pop, juice or beer. All of which can be a very tough change.
So how the hell can we end up sticking with it all?
It starts with really diving deep and thinking about what we want from being active, and why it’s important to us.
Here’s a quick example (and trust me, sometimes this conversation goes a lot longer, and is much harder to admit too):
I Want to get started so you can lose weight?
Awesome! Why do you want to lose weight?
To fit better in my clothing.
Why do you want to fit in your clothing better?
To feel better about myself.
Why do you want to feel better about yourself?
Because I want to feel confident, healthy and happy about my appearance.
Boom!
So, what is more motivating for us to go to the gym? Because they want to lose weight? Or because they want to feel more confident, healthy and happy about themselves? When we are honest about what we want to achieve, we will be more motivated to go and get it done. Relying on motivation won’t keep us going all the time but using those motivated times to establish strong habits will.
We need to remember why we are wanting to make this change and why it’s important to us, not just doing it because we should, but doing it because we want to see a change in our lives. When we do that, we can stay motivated, and make this new year resolution one that works.
Part 4: Top 5 Things You Can Do
Ready to finally get started on achieving your New Years Resolutions? Well, we have the top 5 tips to help you achieve the success you are looking for!
1. Have a clearly defined goal that means something personal
We need to think of what we want to accomplish, and why we want to accomplish it. Is it “Just cause” or is there a purpose to this ultimate vision of what we want to achieve? If there is a reason behind our goals, we are going to be much more likely to follow through on these changes not just short term, but long term as well.
We can’t be general in our goals either, we need to come up with very specific goals that we can clearly set up our action plans for (the S.M.A.R.T. goal structure is the best to go here). “Being fit” is not a good goal, an alternative to that (depending on the goal) may be being able to do a 5km run by September or being able to do 10 pullups in a row in 10 weeks from now. These are clearly defined goals, with a result we are looking for, and a deadline that we need to accomplish it by. If we hit it or not, it gives us an opportunity to see how we are progressing. Which comes to my next point…
2. Come up with a step-by-step plan
Once you know exactly what you want to achieve, we need a plan to go about achieving it. Unfortunately, the following doesn’t work:
“Step 1 – Workout
Step 2 – Have a Six Pack”
As you can see, there are a few steps missing between step 1 and step 2. We need to come up with a realistic and effective step-by-step plan towards the results we want to achieve. A lot of times this is where we can get stuck, or we aren’t sure what we need to adjust to see the changes that we want to see. This is where either professional help or a deep look at what we are doing (plus some tracking) can come in to help us realize what we are doing, so we can make the change necessary to see our goals.
We want to think about this like fractions in math (I know... yucky!), we want to break this down to the lowest number possible. We need to take our action plans from five-tenths to one half. If our action plan is to workout, then you better know how many times per week, how long, what you are doing for those exercises and have a way to track your progress. We want every detail of this action plan written down because then it gives you exact guidelines on what to do to get to where you want to be.
Let’s use the example from point 1, 10 pullups in 10 weeks:
Step 1
- Do 1 pull-up 5x per week.
- Stretch back muscles 1x per week for 5 minutes.
Step 2
- Do 2 Pull-ups in a row 5x per week
- Stretch back muscles 2x per week for 5 minutes
Step 3
- Do 3 Pull-ups in a row 2x per week
- Do 2 Pull-ups 3x in a row per week
- Stretch back muscles 3x per week for 5 minutes
Etc.
Now you can see we have much more structure week to week, we know exactly what we need to accomplish, or we at least must have a goal to accomplish this. If we don’t hit it, we can reassess and try again next week. This gives us a vision of where we are going to get to, and how we are going to get there.
3. Create a support system
What good is all this without people around who are going to help us rather than hinder our progress? If we’ve done all this planning and all this preparing just for someone to sabotage us, what’s the point of all this? We need people in our lives who are going to help elevate or raise us up. Therefore, it is so important to share our goals with those around us. If your friends, co-workers and family members understand why we are making changes, and the importance of those changes to us they will hopefully support and help you along the way. When we don’t have peer pressure in our lives, it gives us much stronger “willpower” to avoid situations where we may fall off from our goals.
Unfortunately, not everyone will be supportive, and this is where we really must look at who we are spending time with. If people around us are saying things like “Oh just come for one drink, it won’t kill your diet” or “Skip the gym, you’ve been working hard all week”, then you might have some red flags. I’m not sitting here telling you to cut these kinds of people out of our lives, but it might be time to assess how much time you spend with those people. Unfortunately, subconsciously or not, some people will try to tear us down for trying to make that change in our lives. Sometimes others are jealous, sometimes people just want to stay in their own ways, but regardless of what it is, it will make this process harder for everyone involved.
This is where establishing some new support systems becomes important. Find new people with similar interests by taking some different classes around town, joining a walking/running group, join a recreational sports team or just get a friend or family member involved. Having someone to do it with, and that supports us every step in the way will make our goals much more achievable!
4. Track Everything
We cannot make a change in our lifestyle, if we don’t really know what is happening. To make a change, we need to track what we do daily. This can include what we eat, our
physical activity, our water consumption, our screen time, our alcohol consumption and almost any other lifestyle habit we have. When we track and measure what we’ve done daily/weekly/monthly it gives us a realistic idea of where we are that’s on paper, and not relying on our memory. How many times have we all thought that we drank enough water throughout the day, when realistically we may have only had one or two cups?
When we track, we end up being honest about what we are taking in, which can show us what the real issues are, so we can make the adjustments necessary to see the changes that we want. If we are looking to make a real change this New Year, we need to track everything possible to build new habits and stay on track much more effectively.
5. Take Action
Nike nailed it back when they made the slogan “Just Do It”. If we want to make a change, if we want to achieve something, if there is a goal we want; we just need to do it! We need to act, and not next week, not next month and definitely not next year. We need to change this crap today! Once you have that idea in place, get those goals on paper... build you plan of attack... tell people about what you are working on... start tracking what you want to change... then start making that change!
This should be the easiest step, but we all tend to procrastinate and put things off until the perfect moment, the perfect time or the perfect situation. News flash… there is never a perfect time to start anything. There always be a reason to NOT do something, but we need to find that reason to Just Do It.
Let’s make this the New Years we’ve always wanted it to be, by achieving our goals, hitting our resolutions and making that change in your lifestyle once and for all!
Rich Hill
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Part 1: Resolutions
The fitness industry is a funny place. Many fitness instructors and leaders are dead set in a black and white mentality of this is right, and this is wrong. Unfortunately, that can lead to highly biased opinions and mislead consumers, cause lets face it... we wouldn’t buy a program that MIGHT work for us, versus a program advertised that WILL work for us.
One example of a term that’s been getting beaten up over the past several years is the term “Resolution” especially around New Years.
“Don’t make resolution’s... make goals!” is a common term you will hear from almost ANY fitness instructor come the new year, including yours truly. But why? Why is it that Resolutions are now the enemy?
The common thought process behind why resolutions aren’t great is that they are too generalized, they don’t add any structure, and that they don’t work long term. When we look at it that way, resolutions don’t sound like the best way to go when making a lifestyle change. Even in practice they seem to not work very well, think back to last new years and what resolutions we may have made. Did we follow through on them? Did they last more than a month? Most likely not. So that must mean that resolutions are crap, and you’re better off not making them at all right?
Wrong.
Resolutions are fantastic to make. When we look at the definition of a Resolution, they are a “firm decision to do or not to do something”. When we make that decision that we want to make a change, whether that’s adding something into your lifestyle (exercise, water, etc.) or taking something out (bad nutrition habits, smoking, etc.) that’s the starting point of the process. We don’t implement a plan; we don’t set goals and we don’t see progress without first making a resolution to see that change. It’s the way we approach resolutions that need to change, not simply stopping the process of making resolutions. Resolutions should be the base that we set our goals for the year. If our resolution is to get in better shape this new year, then we can start to make action plans on how to accomplish that. It really is a trickle-down affect from that ultimate vision of what you want to accomplish throughout the year, and then applying strategies to accomplishing it.
Long story short… Goals and Resolutions are ultimately the same thing. So next new years, make a resolution, make a goal, make action plans but most importantly take action towards those plans. We can have the best plan in place to see change but unless we put that into action, we’ll never see the changes we want.
Part 2: The Starting Point
Why is it that we always seem to start something on a Sunday? Or the First of the Month? Or the start of the New Year?
While I’ll never claim to be a psychologist and know for sure (this is all based off prior experience), there’s something to be said about having a clearly defined, set time frame to make a change, that just helps us get started. Mentally, this gives us a chance to prepare for change, and be ready to make that jump.
Let’s start with the example of starting to go to the gym. If we know exactly what day we are going to start (and commit to it!) then it gives us an opportunity to prepare, get some new shoes, new workout clothes, a water bottle, look up a workout plan, and visualize how that experience is going to go. It gives us time to ask around about the facility we’ve decided on, so we have a better idea of where things are or how things work. Mentally, we feel more prepared when we first step into the gym. Yes, there will still be nerves and a bit of anxiousness if we’ve never been there before, but once we get going that will dissipate very quickly.
Another benefit of being able to prepare is that we have one date that we know we need to get started with. We know exactly what time/day we need to be at the gym, so instead of saying “I’ll go tomorrow” time and time again, we are able to commit to the date selected.
There is no other prime example of this time specific starting date, then short term programs. They are by far the most popular programs, and one of the most successful in terms of the results we can see in a short time frame. One of the biggest reasons why people have so much success? “It had a specific start and end date”.
But this isn’t just for fitness, this is applied in a lot of ways through our lives. How many of us have started a budget at the beginning of the month? Who’s rent comes out at the same time every month? Do you do your grocery shopping on Sunday? Do you have a clear time you need to be at work? We do this because it helps us think ahead, it helps us track things better, or because we just need that structured accountability in our minds to get us there.
So whatever change you are looking to make, use this tool to help yourself. While its great to be an action taker and do things at the spur of the moment, that’s not how everyone works. Look at your calendar and pick a date you are getting started, then get started!
Part 3: Priorities
Every new year, gyms get flooded with new members looking to finally make that change this New Year and be a healthier version of themselves. But come the end of January, many of these individuals are no longer going to the gym. They’ve fallen off, lost motivation, or simply stopped going all together. But why does this happen? Why do people start with so many great intentions but don’t follow through?
Let’s take a step back and think about why we got started in the first place. Most of us start a physical activity routine because we know we should in order to lose weight, lose inches and be healthier. We want to look and feel better than we do now. So, if we want it, why don’t we stick with it?
It’s quite simple, but we have a hard time admitting it. The reason why we don’t stick with it? It’s not a priority to us, compared to other things in our life.
We need to prioritize the time we spend on ourselves to go to the gym. We need to prioritize getting that gym session in before or after work when all we want to do is hit the snooze button, or head home to chill out on the couch (and most of us aren’t getting up once we get there!). It means eating more fruits and veggies rather than chips and ice-cream. Drinking more water than pop, juice or beer. All of which can be a very tough change.
So how the hell can we end up sticking with it all?
It starts with really diving deep and thinking about what we want from being active, and why it’s important to us.
Here’s a quick example (and trust me, sometimes this conversation goes a lot longer, and is much harder to admit too):
I Want to get started so you can lose weight?
Awesome! Why do you want to lose weight?
To fit better in my clothing.
Why do you want to fit in your clothing better?
To feel better about myself.
Why do you want to feel better about yourself?
Because I want to feel confident, healthy and happy about my appearance.
Boom!
So, what is more motivating for us to go to the gym? Because they want to lose weight? Or because they want to feel more confident, healthy and happy about themselves? When we are honest about what we want to achieve, we will be more motivated to go and get it done. Relying on motivation won’t keep us going all the time but using those motivated times to establish strong habits will.
We need to remember why we are wanting to make this change and why it’s important to us, not just doing it because we should, but doing it because we want to see a change in our lives. When we do that, we can stay motivated, and make this new year resolution one that works.
Part 4: Top 5 Things You Can Do
Ready to finally get started on achieving your New Years Resolutions? Well, we have the top 5 tips to help you achieve the success you are looking for!
1. Have a clearly defined goal that means something personal
We need to think of what we want to accomplish, and why we want to accomplish it. Is it “Just cause” or is there a purpose to this ultimate vision of what we want to achieve? If there is a reason behind our goals, we are going to be much more likely to follow through on these changes not just short term, but long term as well.
We can’t be general in our goals either, we need to come up with very specific goals that we can clearly set up our action plans for (the S.M.A.R.T. goal structure is the best to go here). “Being fit” is not a good goal, an alternative to that (depending on the goal) may be being able to do a 5km run by September or being able to do 10 pullups in a row in 10 weeks from now. These are clearly defined goals, with a result we are looking for, and a deadline that we need to accomplish it by. If we hit it or not, it gives us an opportunity to see how we are progressing. Which comes to my next point…
2. Come up with a step-by-step plan
Once you know exactly what you want to achieve, we need a plan to go about achieving it. Unfortunately, the following doesn’t work:
“Step 1 – Workout
Step 2 – Have a Six Pack”
As you can see, there are a few steps missing between step 1 and step 2. We need to come up with a realistic and effective step-by-step plan towards the results we want to achieve. A lot of times this is where we can get stuck, or we aren’t sure what we need to adjust to see the changes that we want to see. This is where either professional help or a deep look at what we are doing (plus some tracking) can come in to help us realize what we are doing, so we can make the change necessary to see our goals.
We want to think about this like fractions in math (I know... yucky!), we want to break this down to the lowest number possible. We need to take our action plans from five-tenths to one half. If our action plan is to workout, then you better know how many times per week, how long, what you are doing for those exercises and have a way to track your progress. We want every detail of this action plan written down because then it gives you exact guidelines on what to do to get to where you want to be.
Let’s use the example from point 1, 10 pullups in 10 weeks:
Step 1
- Do 1 pull-up 5x per week.
- Stretch back muscles 1x per week for 5 minutes.
Step 2
- Do 2 Pull-ups in a row 5x per week
- Stretch back muscles 2x per week for 5 minutes
Step 3
- Do 3 Pull-ups in a row 2x per week
- Do 2 Pull-ups 3x in a row per week
- Stretch back muscles 3x per week for 5 minutes
Etc.
Now you can see we have much more structure week to week, we know exactly what we need to accomplish, or we at least must have a goal to accomplish this. If we don’t hit it, we can reassess and try again next week. This gives us a vision of where we are going to get to, and how we are going to get there.
3. Create a support system

Unfortunately, not everyone will be supportive, and this is where we really must look at who we are spending time with. If people around us are saying things like “Oh just come for one drink, it won’t kill your diet” or “Skip the gym, you’ve been working hard all week”, then you might have some red flags. I’m not sitting here telling you to cut these kinds of people out of our lives, but it might be time to assess how much time you spend with those people. Unfortunately, subconsciously or not, some people will try to tear us down for trying to make that change in our lives. Sometimes others are jealous, sometimes people just want to stay in their own ways, but regardless of what it is, it will make this process harder for everyone involved.
This is where establishing some new support systems becomes important. Find new people with similar interests by taking some different classes around town, joining a walking/running group, join a recreational sports team or just get a friend or family member involved. Having someone to do it with, and that supports us every step in the way will make our goals much more achievable!
4. Track Everything
We cannot make a change in our lifestyle, if we don’t really know what is happening. To make a change, we need to track what we do daily. This can include what we eat, our
physical activity, our water consumption, our screen time, our alcohol consumption and almost any other lifestyle habit we have. When we track and measure what we’ve done daily/weekly/monthly it gives us a realistic idea of where we are that’s on paper, and not relying on our memory. How many times have we all thought that we drank enough water throughout the day, when realistically we may have only had one or two cups?
When we track, we end up being honest about what we are taking in, which can show us what the real issues are, so we can make the adjustments necessary to see the changes that we want. If we are looking to make a real change this New Year, we need to track everything possible to build new habits and stay on track much more effectively.
5. Take Action
Nike nailed it back when they made the slogan “Just Do It”. If we want to make a change, if we want to achieve something, if there is a goal we want; we just need to do it! We need to act, and not next week, not next month and definitely not next year. We need to change this crap today! Once you have that idea in place, get those goals on paper... build you plan of attack... tell people about what you are working on... start tracking what you want to change... then start making that change!
This should be the easiest step, but we all tend to procrastinate and put things off until the perfect moment, the perfect time or the perfect situation. News flash… there is never a perfect time to start anything. There always be a reason to NOT do something, but we need to find that reason to Just Do It.
Let’s make this the New Years we’ve always wanted it to be, by achieving our goals, hitting our resolutions and making that change in your lifestyle once and for all!
Rich Hill
CSEP - Certified Personal Trainer (2011-Current)
General Manager - 360 Fitness Sherwood Park
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